Being the right person

I think people always think that to be happy is to find a right a person in their life…

And I think that what makes people always try to find those happiness very hard, however in the end they always feel disappointed with the result…

The truth is to be happy… you have to be the right person…

To be someone who knows how to love yourself… and I think it really makes sense… If you can’t be happy when you are alone then how can you find happiness in other people…

If you don’t even know how to love yourself, then how can you love anyone?

But being the right person is not easy, and when we read the word right person…

I think it also means that you do something right in your life, or maybe someone that has integrity in their life quality, which is right. You do things right even when nobody there and only you.

To be honest it’s really hard, and even I’m still learning to be the right person. However I always afraid that I might not be able to do it, and I do feel really disappointed in myself over and over again.

However sometimes in order to be better you do need to step back a bit, fail a bit, to be miserable a bit, so you can learn and be better.

Being the right person….

Do the right things..

Improve to be better..

Love yourself more..

Having an integrity..

I want all of this keep on repeating everyday in my heart… only by doing that we can become more confident and be ourself…

And I want to share a bit about what I learb a couple days ago from Ps. Steven Furtick that talk about in genesis God said two will become one and not two half person to become one…

It means you need 2 complete person to become a complete family… and not half complete….

Can you imagine when only one person know how to love themselve and the other person doesn’t know at all…

What’s going happen?

They will hurt each other….

And in this case, it’s not only talk about couple.. but also families, friends, siblings…

And I really hope that I can be the right person wherever I go…

So how can we become the right person?

There are no shortcut for that…

You need to be a process… and it’s going be hurt because you need to forgive more… you need to move on… you need to change… you need to become a better person..and all of that need time…

So be patient….

For me, I also want to rely on God to guide me…

For I am weak… but He is strong…

For I am not perfect… but He is…

So I’ll learn from Him… and He will be my guide…

❤